Sara said, “I didn’t laugh.”
[Jesus] said, “Yes, you laughed.”
When I look at paintings of Jesus, when I watch movies depicting him, many times I see a solemn, dissociated, and melancholy man who doesn’t seem to be engaged in this life. My experience with Jesus is exactly the opposite. He is intimately engaged in my life. He makes jokes to me and makes me laugh. (I know, you think I’m mentally ill). When I lead prayer in groups I sometimes make jokes to Him, to give others the sense that Jesus is a humble, informal, brother of ours.
Hebrews 2:11 NASB95
For both He who sanctifies and those who are sanctified are all from one Father; for which reason He is not ashamed to call them brethren,
One time an unsaved spouse of someone in our Bible study was giving our group a test run. They said years later, that they were unsure if they would come back until, when I was praying to Jesus, I made a joke to Jesus (to show this person the informal, approachable character of Jesus). He said that hearing me joke to Jesus convinced him to stay in the Bible study.
Of course I do not disrespect Jesus. John, in Revelation, fell on the ground frozen, in fear of the holiness of Jesus. When Jesus confronted me with my sinfulness and I rebelled against the truth, against Him, I saw his robes of light from the thighs down, I felt His anger burn, and I was frozen in terror as well.
Revelation 1:17 NASB95
When I saw Him, I fell at His feet like a dead man. And He placed His right hand on me, saying, “Do not be afraid; I am the first and the last,
But just like Jesus invented reverance, He invented laughter as well. Babies don’t need lessons in learning to laugh, giggle and smile. We are hard-wired to have fun. But of course laughter and fun are not an end in themselves. Solomon tested laughter and found that laughter as an end in itself is meaningless.
Ecclesiastes 7:6 NASB95
For as the crackling of thorn bushes under a pot,
So is the laughter of the fool;
And this too is futility.
The Bible doesn’t mention Jesus’ laughter. So how do I know that the paintings and movies didn’t get the “melancholy Jesus” right? Dr. Charles F. Stanley observed that the little children wanted to be with Jesus. And Jesus wanted to be with the little children. Dr. Stanley said that children are repelled by the solemn, dissociated, and melancholy. They are attracted to laughter, fun and joy. And they were attracted to Jesus.
Mark 10:13–16 NASB95
And they were bringing children to Him so that He might touch them; but the disciples rebuked them.
But when Jesus saw this, He was indignant and said to them, “Permit the children to come to Me; do not hinder them; for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these.
“Truly I say to you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a child will not enter it at all.”
And He took them in His arms and began blessing them, laying His hands on them.
The real Jesus was/is a real person. And he really laughed and he really had fun. Just like God the Father does. (Remember we were made in God’s image). If you didn’t know that Jesus invented fun and laughter, if you want to experience this part of his joy,
just ask him.
He would love to love you in this way.