My goal is to share the love of Jesus that he has shared with me.
Love does not condemn people, but love does condemn that which harms people, known in the Bible as “sin.” These actions I am against, not the people doing them. My life was sinful when I met Jesus. I denied it. And spent ten years under His wrath while He humbled me. When I admitted my sin and accepted Jesus my life changed. Now I am not sinless, but I do sin less. I still fall short and need His forgiveness.
Join me as we discuss Jesus, Mental Illness, and the combination of both.
No matter how hard I try I can’t live up to what I think others expect of me
Maybe I should just rejoice that Jesus loves me just as I am
And that reality is greater
Than what I
God has given me clarity of thought, awareness of satan’s schemes, and consideration for my wife and son’s desires already. (This took me by surprise as I was expecting benefits for others first).
Go, Jesus, go!
Starting September 1, 2013 our family double-tithed for a month, we gave 20% of our income back to God, that is, to our local church. God gave me a new job and other nice things happened. (See, https://i-m-4-u.com/2013/09/29/did-god-pass-the-test/). But that was 3 and a half years ago.
My wife and I were listening this morning to a pastor talk about the fun of miracles happening in our lives and in the lives of others. I asked God to give me the desire to be receptive to his miracles again by doing what he says to do. I remembered what we did back in 2013. And so, the fire was lit. We are going to do another double-tithe for a month. While much happened for us last time, relationally and financially, I am anticipating much happening for others this time. Still, one of my goals is that my wife and two sons and myself grow in our trust of our invisible God. I want God to make himself “real and tangible” in our hearts and minds.
So Jesus, we are ready for whatever you want to do in, through and for us, take it away…
“Dare to stand before those you fear and speak your mind, even if your voice shakes.”
― Maggie Kuhn
And I was with you in weakness, and in fear, and in much trembling.
– Paul, Apostle of Jesus, 1 Corinthians 2:3
I am guilty of judging content by delivery. If someone is confident and smooth in their presentation, I sometimes give them much more credit that someone who is halting, trembles and shows their insecurity.
Fortunately God uses people like Paul who boasted of his weaknesses in order that Christ’s power would influence people, not his own power.
Last summer I stood up in front of about 100 people at a satellite campus of our church and presented a new ministry: hope for mental health. My hands were shaking so badly I could not read my notes, and my voice was shaking as well. But the comments I received afterwards about the content were positive, and we laughed about the delivery.
Perhaps you can relate less to the polished person than the trembling speaker, and you decline to talk about Jesus to others (friends, family, strangers) because of fear.
Fear is your friend.
If you trust Jesus with your eternity, trust him to fill you and give you words and everything else you need to tell the people he died for that he loves them. Jesus takes full responsibility for you when you obey him. And obeying Jesus is fun. Being filled with Jesus and doing what he wants is the most fun I have ever had. And I did it with shaking hands and shaking voice. Fear was my friend because it drove away reliance on “me” and allowed Jesus to guide me, to do his work, his way, with his words.
Whatever your excuse for not doing what Jesus has commanded you to do is not worth holding onto. Having the courage to obey Jesus does not mean you will not be afraid. It means you love and trust Jesus more than your fear.
Why working for heaven will not work
God’s love is not for sale
The source of courage for a “reed shaking in the wind.”
Acts 4:13 in the Bible (KJV):
Now when they saw the boldness of Peter and John, and perceived that they were unlearned and ignorant men, they marvelled; and they took knowledge of them, that they had been with Jesus.
I have always been fascinated with life verses: how did people choose them, how could one verse capture their whole life, why didn’t I have one?
Today the above verse struck me. I present as timid, my hand shakes when I am nervous, my voice shakes as well. Yet, out of obedience to Jesus, I have risked my job, my family’s income, saying I would not work with ads that promoted pornography, abortion or the occult. I have been filled with the Holy Spirit explaining to upper management why these things are wrong, how they hurt all the people involved with them.
At another job I pointed out to the Executive Director that the self-care we were teaching our clients, we ourselves were being forced to ignore for ourselves because we were being forced to work 60 hours a week (for 40 hours pay). Their initial stated reaction to my email was appreciation for what I had “uncovered.” After a few months they turned on me and I quit before they could fire me.
In another situation, a group I was a part of were deciding if they should use their influence to encourage a family to stop life-support, and let someone die because if they lived it would dramatically change everyone’s life for the “worse.” (this last part was unstated by our group). I firmly dissented to stopping life-support because I believed in the long run they would recover. I was the only one that dissented. The person died. The family now regrets their decision and wishes they could choose over again. The group has never acknowledged their wrong.
I have no courage to do these things; but Jesus does. He fills me with his courage, courage to do the right thing and let God the Father handle what comes next. I may appear to others to be a “reed shaking in the wind.”
But some see that I have “been with Jesus.”
I was a people-pleaser.
I was always watching how I presented myself to others. I was careful not to do anything someone might interpret as “weird” or “different,” nothing that would possibly be interpreted as “crazy.” I would make statements if I did do anything different to make sure everyone knew I was “normal.” If I had to make a u-turn in a hallway because I forgot something I would say, “Oops, forgot something,” to no-one and anyone that saw me. I was the only one that cared what I said but it cleared the air that, though I was doing a u-turn I was really “normal.”
If I was in a room by myself, lost in thought about something, and I heard someone walk in the room, I would quickly start “looking like I was doing something” so no one would know I was “staring into space.”
Now, forty years after becoming mentally ill and thirty years after being on the right meds, I (almost) don’t care what other people think of me. Trying to maintain the facade of “normal” takes tremendous energy and traps you in arbitrary cultural norms. I care if I project Jesus’ character, but if I do something that others don’t understand and they think less of me because they don’t ask me what I’m up to… it’s their loss.
Every culture has norms because they solve certain problems. But I am not a slave to them. I will not go back to fearing what others think of me.
Life is short, Jesus’ call is consuming, and I don’t have the time to chase the phantoms of misinterpretation.