It has been said that the Christian army is the only army that shoots its own wounded. Headlines read: Big Name Pastor ______ allegedly has ongoing sin… And I immediately discount all he has said, (that has helped me greatly) as suspect, and act like I’m not a Big Name Sinner MYSELF! (I’m not Big Name but you get the idea). I struggle with sin, my guess is everyone struggles with sin. If I don’t struggle with sin, then how long have I been in denial? If BNP is guilty, I don’t condemn him behind his back, I read my last post: Don’t Judge me.. please help me. If I condemn BNP I condemn myself, because, contrary to some denominations’ teaching, none of us are perfect and I do the same (types of) things myself. The only difference is I put a spotlight on his sin and close my eyes to mine. This is called hypocrisy. My compassion goes out to the women affected, I know what it is like to be physically assaulted by another system that is supposed to protect me; to not to be believed; and the fear involved in going against that same system.
Author: james bruce mcnaughton
Don’t Judge me… please help me
Through time with God I continue to try to learn and develop my understanding of Matthew Chapter 7.
I hope this is better than similar previous attempts.
Judging Others
verses
Healing Others
verses
Don’t Mess with My Perfection (i.e., Great Need)
1 “Do not judge so that you will not be judged.
2 “For in the way you judge, you will be judged; and by your standard of measure, it will be measured to you.
If I judge you it is because I have done the same thing (or in some way a similar thing) and I have condemned myself for it. I don’t judge people with problems I don’t have. I tend to have compassion on those people.
3 “Why do you look at the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye?
I decide my brother has a fault. My deciding my brother has a fault is my fault.
4 “Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ and behold, the log is in your own eye?
How can I remove my brother’s supposed fault, if thinking he has a fault is my fault?
5 “You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye.
If I remove the log from my eye (i.e. I stop identifying my brother’s behavior as a fault), I see that what I thought was a fault is really the outward expression of an internal need. Now I don’t want to punish his “fault” to correct him, I want to meet his need to heal him. (And the “speck” is removed).
6 “Do not give what is holy to dogs, and do not throw your pearls before swine, or they will trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces.
Some people don’t want their “speck” removed, i.e., they don’t want their need met, because they don’t want their sin exposed so it can be healed. They reject the idea that they even have a speck. They reject the Healer (Jesus), and His messengers: such as me, because they don’t have any problem or need that requires healing and they are already happy and perfect the way they are and they reject anything that implies otherwise…
Those are the faults. But Jesus might say: Their need is great.
They may have hoped for unconditional love and been rejected at critical times in their life. They may not have been able to find true love when they needed it and were open to it. Cynicism filled the space where love should have lived and it became critical, and at the same time too dangerous, to hope for unconditional love again. Unwilling to risk rejection again they become entrenched in what they knew was wrong, blaming others, defying God, hardening their heart and rejecting their only option for true love and peace: Jesus. But, until you take your last breath Jesus offers unconditional love and says, Anyone who comes to me, I will not cast out.
(I have experienced my pearls trampled and my self being verbally torn to pieces. I ignored Jesus’ warning and talked about Jesus to someone Jesus said not to talk to right now. It was not fun, I recommend heeding Jesus’ warnings).
New American Standard Bible: 1995 update. (1995). (Mt 7). La Habra, CA: The Lockman Foundation. NASB Scripture less than 25% of total.
More from Karen…
Love One Another
I asked the Lord, what is my purpose,
What was I created for?
He said, it is to open up and
let me in
When I come knocking at your door.
I love you, he said;
I have created YOU to love. Now go and love your brother;
Do this for me, your Father up above.
I know YOUR love’s inadequate,
And without my power it’s something you can’t do.
So I’ve sent my Holy Spirit To live inside of you.
With my light and love in you,
You have a power like none on earth.
When you believed, my Spirit filled you.
It was then, I gave you a brand new birth.
So go love one another!
And when you step out in love you’ll find
That I am with you always Until the very end of time.
By KR
copyright 9-19-18